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    Rick Perry-Victim of Child Abuse. Brain Damaged, Soul Damaged. Republican Nominee?

    As we gratefully watch  comet Perry fizzle into the dirty icebag we know it to be, let us pause in panic to contemplate the future of a country in which this abused child grows into a brain and soul damaged man, who then snares (forbid it Jesus) the nomination of a major party likely to win the coming election.

    With a nod towards the modern usage, which would have it that one is not a "victim" but a "survivor" of child abuse, I distinguish the two categories thusly:

    A survivor has faced the awful truth that one of the two people delegated by providence to comfort, love, and defend him was instead a monstrous caldron of hate and inflictor of gratuitous pain.  The survivor has come to understand that his abuse was not some justified recompense for his evil ways, but the manifestation of his parents' disease.

    The victim, on the other hand, like Perry, has dealt with the cognitive dissonance of his childhood trauma by erecting a wall of denial, on which he scrawls the graffiti image of an imagined good parent who beat him only to improve his wild ways.

    "If I misbehaved in class, Mom would find out about it before I got home,” Mr. Perry wrote, and his father would get the news on returning from the fields. “Dad believed in the pain principle. His leather belt was usually the delivery method of choice.”

    Examples of the latter are to be found in the comment section of the LA Times article which brought to public view the important study done at the University of New Hampshire by Prof. Murray Strauss.

    Shorter message-beat you child and you lower his IQ (boy does Perry demonstrate the truth of that, or what?) and raise the probability of PTSD and other psychic derangements.

    Republicans, think twice, and then twice again...

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    "I'll give you something to cry about..."


    Good observation, Jolly. What I am dying to know is if those people who offered $5,000 to anyone who would own up to an affair with Perry, got any takers.

    I also have to wonder how he treats his own kids, and the wife.


    I had occasion to ask Karin, who is Swedish (I'm camping on the embassy doorsteps with my emigration papers in hand...) about the law there which, since the 60's has forbidden any "hands on" discipline of kids.  She thinks we are crazy, and it shows.


    Gail Collins in the NYT:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/24/opinion/perrys-bad-night.html?ref=gailcollins

    Maybe it won't be Rick Perry after all.  Maybe there are actually limits to how incoherent a human being can be and still get the Republican presidential nomination.  Maybe we'll get the Dog Torturer instead.


    ... or the Pizza Guy: 

    Herman Cain wins Florida GOP straw poll, Rick Perry finishes a distant 2nd

    I have a feeling this means more about Perry than Cain, though.


    I have a feeling this means more about Perry than Cain, though.

    You don't think the GOP, belatedly realizing the perfidy of its record on race, has decided to turn over a new leaf by nominating an African American as its candidate for the presidency? 


    Ha. Wasserman-Schulz was on Face the Nation this morning, and thought it was a reaction against the TeaOP platform in general.


    His ostensible popularity amongst the KKK party is a real head scratcher.


    There is a famous "truth or dare" meme about flashing the pizza guy...We should plant a questioner in one of Cain's town halls to see how he handles it.


    It is the most purple part of Florida running from Tampa thru Orlando. Right now there is a lot of buyer's remorse for Rick Scott and Floridian Republican voters are reluctant to embrace the extreme ideas that is coming out of the debates. GOP has work to do in order to keep traditional Republican vote from retirees.

    work to do in order to keep traditional Republican vote from retirees.

    At least the ones who still can count up to one thousand, as that is more or less the modal Social Security check value, you know, the ponzi distribution that  Perry insists is their ill-gotten gain.


    I really thought that in a sentimental country like ours, the dog story would be the end of him...


    A really good slant on the man, Jolly. Why the hell would he put that into a book. It's probably true and I agree with your take, he's on the victim side. It's like that, with some kids they face it and admit it. Others paper it over. Good points.

    With this guy, I'm never sure where he's coming from. That kind of rhetoric, leather belt, etc., really resonates with the hard core religious right. It's the Old Testament, vengeance stuff. Spare the rod, spoil the child.


    "This hurts me more than it hurts you.."

     

    Yeah, right!

     

    If you go to the LA Times article, it is astonishing how the abused defend and replicate the practice as adults.

     

    They simply cannot get their arms around the atrocity that was visited upon them.  

     

    Cognitive dissonance and reaction formation are no fuckin joke...


    Now this is the first I heard of it!

    You mean Perry has been abusing children!

    Scandalous I say, just plain scandalous.

    I bet he has been abusing Mexican children this entire time!


    At least by proxy I'm pretty sure Texas teachers pack paddles

    Max Blumenthal applies a version of your thesis to the entire right wing in his book, Republican Gomorrah. He has some nice tie-ins to James Dobson's pro-child-beating theory of parenting. Long before Dobson launched Focus on the Family, he achieved fame for his bestselling book, Dare to Discipline.


    As the heretic in the Heretic's Bible, you will no doubt  have already reflected that after their back-talking sibling got his rebellious ass snuffed (per Leviticus?), the rest of the brood probably straighted up their act right quick...

    Dare to Discipline, indeed.


    At first he cried but then he thanked me.

     


    Reminds me of a vist to The Power Exchange(nsfw)...Some guy was tied over a bench, and his buddy was wailing away with a strap, between which blows the strapee politely requested another.

    But that was perhaps a "specialty act"


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