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    All You'll Ever Need to Know About Gay Marriage

    The Governor of Maine issued a somewhat lengthy statement* today upon signing Marriage Equality into law in the great state of Maine.  But near the end, in two short paragraphs, the statement lays out everything anyone really ever needs to know about this issue in very simple, straightforward language that IMHO cannot really be disputed in any legitimate way.

    Here they are:

    "This new law does not force any religion to recognize a marriage that falls outside of its beliefs. It does not require the church to perform any ceremony with which it disagrees. Instead, it reaffirms the separation of Church and State," Governor Baldacci said.

    "It guarantees that Maine citizens will be treated equally under Maine's civil marriage laws, and that is the responsibility of government."

    My suggestion, for what it's worth, is that everyone in favor of marriage equality from now on simply limit everything they have to say to these simple points because these points are what it's all really about.  We can no longer allow the morons and simpletons and bigots to frame and characterize the debate about marriage equality in any other terms because all other issues are quite literally beside the point. 

    Regardless of side issues (many of which are compelling and important), regardless of straw men that the haters might bring up these are the two points on which the argument will or will not be won.  My own opinion is that when put this way, it is difficult for any decent American to oppose and where the debate should have been all along.  This is the way the issue needs to be framed in every instance.  Whenever the opposition brings up something else simply redirect the debate back to the real issue which is equality before the law and the separation of church and state.  It really is that simple.

    This is not a religious issue it is a civil matter.  This is not an issue about the "sanctitiy" of marriage but the sanctity of the principle and practice of equality before the law in the United States.  The Governor's statement, so succinct and clear, is an opportunity for all those who count themselves as patriots and as people committed to the principles and ideals of liberty and equality in the United States to join together and insist that this debate, from this day forward, be focused on these points and nothing else.

    PS: Hats off to the legislators of Maine who had the guts and courage and vision to act without being forced to do so by the courts and by so doing, making history in a very positive and patriotic manner.

    *You can find the full statement here:

    http://www.talkingpointsmemo.com/news/2009/05/governor_signs_ld_1020_an_act_to_end_discriminatio.php

     

    Comments

    I sure agree that the simplest possible message is the one to give. To reassure the churches. And to affirm equality.

    Nice blog, oleeb.

    It's amazing really how quickly these laws are coming now. How fast people's views on this are changing. I find that a very hopeful sign.


    I wish this would go national. It's great for people in the states that have enacted this, but there's 50 states and not all of them will do this. The arguments Baldacci makes seem sound to me.


    Isn't there a tipping point, where a federal repeal of DOMA is inevitable? If there is, I hope it doesn't take 49 states to reach it.


    The truth is that they can even be argued into a corner on their own religions merits. But there is this simple reality that we shouldn't have to since government and religion are two separate things.

    Great post. And kudos to Maine!


    I agree and it shouldn't. But there will always be resistance.


    The tipping point is so near on this issue. There is no rational basis to deny citizens the right to marry whomever they want regardless of sexual orientation. The state should not be imposing the majority's (which quite frankly in due time will be the minority) moral or religious judgments as to who is allowed to get married.


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